Leah had a BIG day on Tuesday! She gave up her pacy! For quite some time now, we have been talking with her about giving up her pacy. I wanted it out of the picture by the time she was 3 1/2, which is this weekend (I know, I know, that's way too long to begin with, but it worked for us). Last week she was reminded that she only had one more week with her pacy, and when she gave it up, she was promised a little present for being a "big girl" in not using her pacy anymore.
Notice the bag of pacies next to her?
During school that morning, she came up to me and asked me for her present. I told her,
"Remember, no more pacy." She promptly ran out of the room and returned with a baggie for her pacies. The hunt was on, and when found, she proudly dropped them into her baggie. Remembering that we still had two out in the glove compartment of the van, she asked me to go out and get those. I suggested that we then place all four pacies into the trash. She proceeded to get all teary-eyed and stated,
"Mommy, don't throw my pacies away." We brainstormed and came up with the idea of "giving them to other babies to use." She liked that idea. So all four pacies are safely tucked away in the baggie, so in her mind we can "give them to someone else."
Leah proudly telling Daddy her news.After the gathering of her pacies was over, she asked us to sing
"Happy Birthday" and to make a cake. Since she was going to receive a present, she naturally assumed having cake and singing
"Happy Birthday" to her was the appropriate thing to do. But instead of cake, we pulled some cut-out cookies from the freezer, and once thawed, candles were placed into them, lit, and blown out. And instead of
Happy Birthday, here's the rendition of the song we sang to her:
No more pacy today,No more pacy today,No more pacy for Leah,No more pacy today.

Since she has been our first to even use a pacy, I was dreading the whole process of taking the thing away. I admit, there were lots of times that it was helpful for ME when she was pacified by it. What would we do without it? It's a matter that I have laid at the Lord's feet, asking Him to prepare us all for the transition, and I am so thankful that it was her decision when it came down to getting it done -- just four days before she turned 3 1/2.
Thumbs up...I'm a big girl!No nap was had that day. Wednesday I forced the nap, simply because I needed one myself! Today, no nap. Sigh..... I have to wonder, will she be giving up her naps now, too? There are days that I need that quiet time for finishing up school with the girls, reading to them, etc. I am happy to report, however, that nighttime hasn't been as bad as I thought. Since she hasn't taken naps for two of the past three days, she drifted off to sleep rather quickly.
She still misses her little "mouth buddy" and has asked for it, mostly when we're sitting on the couch reading stories or watching a movie together, or when she's really tired. The Lord has been faithful to walk each of us through this little challenge.
Now, on to accomplishing the next challenge....potty training.
~Wee